Diplomatic Questions
Indirect Questions
Indirect questions serve as a polite and diplomatic way to seek information or make requests. Using introductory phrases is crucial for constructing these questions. Consider the following examples:
- Could you tell me what you need to get this task done?
- Introductory phrase + question word + positive sentence
- This example demonstrates how to politely ask a colleague about the requirements for completing a task.
- Do you happen to know where the meeting room is?
- Introductory phrase + positive sentence
- By using an introductory phrase, this question becomes more polite and less direct, suitable for asking directions.
- I wonder if we could move the release date.
- Introductory phrase + if/whether + positive sentence
- In this case, an indirect question is employed to suggest a possible change in plans diplomatically.
Introductory phrases:
- Do you know …
- I wonder / was wondering ….
- Can / Could you tell me …
- Do you happen to know …
- Do you have any idea …
- Would you mind telling me…
- May I ask…
- I’d like to know …
Negative Questions
Negative questions provide a diplomatic way to express concerns or opinions without sounding too direct. Consider the following examples:
- Wouldn’t we be taking a huge risk?
- Negative auxiliary + subject + positive sentence
- This example transforms a statement about a risk into a diplomatic question, inviting others to participate in the decision-making process.
- Wouldn’t it be better to discuss this proposal with other team members?
- Negative auxiliary + subject + positive sentence
- By framing the suggestion as a negative question, the speaker encourages agreement and maintains a more indirect tone.
- They can’t both be right, can they?
- Negative auxiliary + positive sentence
- This question tag allows room for discussion and persuasiveness, particularly useful in negotiation scenarios.
Negative questions can be formed using negative auxiliaries like ‘shouldn’t,’ ‘wouldn’t,’ ‘don’t,’ or ‘won’t,’ creating a more diplomatic tone and leaving room for discussion.
Question Tags
Question tags contribute to politeness and interaction in both statements and suggestions. Here are examples:
- The reports are ready, aren’t they?
- Positive verb + negative tag
- By adding a question tag, this statement becomes an invitation for agreement, fostering interaction.
- We are meeting next week, aren’t we?
- Positive verb + negative tag
- Question tags, as demonstrated here, can maintain engagement and politeness in various situations.
- Let’s start the meeting, shall we?
- Positive verb + positive tag
- Using a tag softens the suggestion, making it more polite and encouraging participation.
EXCEPTIONS
- After ‘I am’ the tag is ‘aren’t’, e.g.
- I am late, aren’t I?
- BUT: I am not late, am I?
- After ‘let’s’ the tag is ‘shall’, e.g.
- Let’s go to the beach, shall we?